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The Lines Project

Please also see Boundaries. Trust. To write love on my arms. for a better understanding why The Lines Project is so intensely important to me. Yes, I deal with self-harm.   But please, go read, and…

Source: The Lines Project

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JJQ #75: The Most Wonderful Thing

I asked Cimmy to serve up a standard JJQ to break up the stream of “Affirmations from my therapist” posts I’ve been doing at this blog regularly.

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“Tell about the most wonderful thing that ever happened to you.”

Ooh!  This one’s a toughie. Let’s see…

Sunday School smilesOur wedding dayI could tell you about how I met my sweetheart at a church function and how we dated and were eventually married in the Bellevue Washington Temple.  Even though it was raining on that day, it was pretty wonderful.  I got to wear a wedding dress made for me by a dear friend of mine in a beautiful building where I was sealed for time and eternity to my very best friend in the whole world other than Jesus Christ.  Yeah, I could talk about that.  It was pretty wonderful, especially considering our 17th anniversary is coming up in December.  So I guess it would make sense for me to talk about that.

14308379517_5d8d5abeaf_mThe T-shirtI could share the story of when I gave birth to my daughter, which began early in the morning…

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Fortune Cookie Ponderings

Please give Cimmy some blog love. She hasn’t been writing as much lately (been more into gaming)

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The other day following a dinner at one of the local Chinese Buffets, the cookie following my meal had an interesting fortune.  It said  “You long to own your own home and family is all important to you,” or something similar to that.  My husband, jaklumen, suggested I write a post on it.  So here I am tapping away at the buttons of my keyboard, trying to come up with something you might find interesting or that might, at least, perk your interest.  Personally, I’m not sure how interesting you’ll find philosophical discussions with regards to fortune cookie inserts.  Still, it’s worth a shot, right?

6566848537_8977d5444e_m Christmas Fire with Mom and Son

So, my family lives in a home that we aren’t renting.  Still, technically, we don’t own it.  It’s under mortgage, a payment that jak pays every month without fail.  The main reason we bought are buying the house in which…

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jak & Cimmy’s sweet 16

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Today, we’ve been married for 16 years.

Cimmy got the right idea real quick.  Both of our wedding bands broke, and she wanted to wear a ring again.  So she went to Wallyworld and found an eternity style band that fit her right away.

When we went out on a date to do some shopping (we take time when we can get it, okay?) we stopped by Wal’s jewelry department so I could get an updated size of my ring finger.  Oh dear.  14 1/2, and of course they didn’t have any rings that size.  (Cheap manufacturers will often refer that as a thumb ring size, to boot.)

So I went to Amazon and eBay.  It took me a while, but I found something evocative, but in a grey metal color (silver matches my blue-veined skin better than gold):

Yes, this image is from the seller I bought it from…

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Weekly Photo Challenge: Room

Please come visit Cimmorene and I at the Journal Jar for this week’s Photo Challenge at WP’s Daily Post. Comments are closed at the tao of jaklumen.

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From the four walls that currently surround you to the infinite potential of space, this week we’d like you to show us your take on room, rooms, or a room.

Our house has a family room that originally was a garage.  It had very few places to sit.

But in all our years of marriage, we just found modern couches too easily wrecked and destroyed.  As our son Boy got older, we needed to have something that would hold up.

We got lucky and chanced on a Craigslist ad for some outdoor patio furniture that the manager of a storage rental was selling, and for a nice price.  We figured if the cushions ever got destroyed, replacing them would be an easy matter.

Kids like the new family room setup The kids like the family room setup.

Boy photobombing the family room area This is Boy’s idea of a photobomb.

Princess photobombs the family room I’d say she’s a ham, but hams can be cured.

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jak’s turn to post some artwork (UPDATE!)

Please see me at the Journal Jar for comments– thanks!

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Doing some colorization on a scan of some artwork I did over twenty years ago.  See also jak’s turn to post some artwork

Remember that this is a Work In Progress (WIP)

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How the Journal Jar REALLY celebrated V-Day

Comments closed on the tao of jaklumen as per usual– please come and visit us on the Journal Jar!

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Did you like our version of the Rick Roll Internet meme?

What’s a Rick Roll?  Maybe you should go back and check!

Here’s a taster of what we actually did:

We were at RadCon 6B!

Have you ever been to a convention?  (It’s okay, business conventions count, too!)  What were your most favorite parts?  What parts did you dislike?

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